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Why do men feel singled out?
Is feminism wrong in its strategy? Are all male machistas? Some ideas on what we could do better. We’re missing opportunities that others have been…
Nov 20
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The Invisible Labor of Motherhood: Confronting the Guilt Gap Between Men and Women
The guilt gap. Women, “anxious” and “exaggerated”, can you step to the side? Men, “comfortable and relaxed,” step in and do what feels uncomfortable…
Nov 6
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October 2024
Focusing on what’s most important
An anti-romantic weekend. A stolen phone and a happy BBQ. Drama, death, and magic. I hope my children will remember the time spent with me as the most…
Oct 23
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Public complaint, private joy
There is social honour in following a prestigious career. Yet while the pleasures of parenting are profound, they are also private.
Oct 9
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September 2024
Transitions
A son with a fractured arm. The other is adapting to the nursery. My projects, postponed. We don't care because we love, we love because we care.
Sep 25
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Thinking About My Late Parents On A Nostalgic Morning
As a father, I go back to the role of son for a while and discover things about my parents. Their music, habits and upbringing. Is it harder now to be a…
Sep 11
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August 2024
I am not afraid of anything
We say one thing, and feel another. How important do you find talking about things — does it feel like you’re exposing yourself and accepting your…
Aug 28
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Why Men Think They Can Always Beat Women
Nick Cave, God's whispers and intuition. Why does a guy challenge an athlete? Playing against Serena Williams. Son and mixed soccer. I want help, but I…
Aug 14
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July 2024
How Our Hidden Talents Go Unnoticed In A Result-Focused World
Short, light newsletter. Asymmetry between the result and the process. Son wants to bury me in the garden. Do cell phones make us stupid?
Jul 31
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Cleansed community, let’s keep the conversation going
Turn-offs: boasting about sex with partners, and men talking about men…
Jul 19
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June 2024
With No Intimacy And Sad Penises
A Colombian journalist recounts his sexual traumas. Men lack intimacy with each other. Partners are not our therapists.
Jun 28
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A father to a five year old: don’t quit on a bad day
My eldest told me he wanted to quit going to football training. “When something feels hard, the mind and body resist because they seek comfort”.
Jun 5
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